When I was young it was all about what I wanted, whether I needed it or could afford it. I didn't spend the rent money on a pair of shoes or go so far in debt I couldn't get out, but many of my friends did.
Now I am old
and have figured out that if I don't have it and am surviving without it, I don't need it. I think age is a big factor.
I do support local business within reason, not as an act of charity, but because I appreciate the convenience. But 80 % of my purchases are at bigger stores with more variety and lower prices and longer shopping hours.
I have been shopping around for years for a dishwasher. My 40 year old dishwasher still works although it has its moments. So I not only don't need it, but am a bit afraid of replacing working equipment with a lemon
When I do buy one it will be partially based on price and partially on features and warranties and installation costs. I have probably spent 5 or 6 hours a year looking at dishwashers. No doubt it was time I could have spent more profitably but not time I would have spent more profitably.
Essentials I buy ahead on sale and it takes little time to check the flyers. I don't buy months in advance, but 3-4 weeks seems sensible if the price is right and I rarely waste anything. I generally only buy what I need or want. This saves me about 30% overall, and usually get a better quality product than the cheapest available.
I spend pretty big bucks on computer equipment, so I shop around. My biggest splurge is dining out. I'd rather spend $50 on a dinner to remember than $10-$20 on mediocre.
But this is just me. Others have their priorities, or did not have the dubious advantage of being brought up dirt poor. Most are not stupid or ignorant or even selfish, they just have not had time or opportunity to learn any better.
Helen