oh silly me! I forgot i had jailbroken so i started the update (which failed, of course) and now I have to restore, instead. Oh well, the JB wasnt a big deal, I installed a couple of things I promptly forgot about, wont bother again. Bit annoyed about now losing my spot in my book. Another reason to continue using iBooks instead of other things. at least I could have had a bookmark in the ipad... which would then directly translate to the iphone. These things are sent to try us.
[Edit] Never mind... I dont know if its because I encrypted my backups (probably) but even my Stanza bookmark was saved. back to where I want to be
