Thank you desertgrandma and sweetpea for support! I have a cold feet day today. I woke up too late (was finishing my 51 book last night) and now I don't know where to put my hands first, so why not to go to MR instead
Anyway I do know they won't remember hard work but they whine if I will cook something they love and of course I will but it takes three days and I figured if I start on Thursday I will make it...
On another note instead of running like headless chicken I took time yesterday to bake cookies with my 5 year old son and he loved it - and me too
Fo how-to plan Stressmas in advance, 2 years ago I found a free online help which worked wonders for me.