I have NOT read any of these, but I just came across a couple of military romantic suspense books - and definitely marketed as romance - by a male author. No clue if that means they'd be any easier to read BY a male, but hey...you can check them out and see if you're interested.
By the way, I was reading
this blog entry and realized this "ML Buchanan" was a guy, not a woman publishing under her initials.
Even better, the DANL website sells the books without DRM, woo-hoo!