ProfCrash, I have my

that you are able to find a job that is much closer to home. I know how hard it is to leave them and be so far away when they are little. I had to commute 2 hours back and forth when my son was a little older and I hated to be so far, but I had no choice. I wish we had had all the pluses of now, then.
My friend found a way to feel a little less stressed by having her daughter's caregiver send videos and pics during the day to her at work. Maybe, try something like that for you and Lucas?