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Originally Posted by CWatkinsNash
But if 50 Shades makes BDSM look boring, awkward and dysfunctional, it might have the opposite effect on the lifestyle.
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The danger is a rise in attraction of irresponsible individuals misunderstanding the concept of dominance.
Being the only active obliges to act for both and being watchful for both. Observe every tiniest reaction of the sub's body.
Posess but care.
Lead but not belittle.
Use but abuse not.
By taking all you decide to give back what is expected.
Submission is a gift of trust and responsibility. Value and deserve it.
Only then it 'll work. Be proud of what you have been gifted with; and your jewel will be proud of being valued.