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Originally Posted by ATDrake
Well, as long as they eventually get the idea that everything's really supposed to be done for the submissive's pleasure, within their comfort zone,
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Originally Posted by Piper_
Hmm,  I'd prolly re-word that as "for the Dom's pleasure, within the sub's comfort zone," |
Personally, I prefer "for mutual pleasure, within both our comfort zones", but that's just me.
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Originally Posted by Piper_
So true. I think it's why I suffered through the bad writing in FSoG. lol It's just so hard to find D/s (or *gasp* DD) books that don't have the bolded parts.
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It is? I must have been very lucky then.
Tangent here: You might enjoy the Nature of Desire series, by Joey W Hill. I've only read the first three yet, but the focus is definitely more on intimacy, communication and trust, than on restraints and whips. The latter is of course present (in great detail!) but used as a way of achieving the former more than anything else. It's the kind of series where the secondary characters in one book are the main ones in another.
Tangent over
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Originally Posted by Piper_
still, if some of them are serious about it, they might learn something about the value of trust in a relationship  |
Trust,
and communication. If ever there was a relationship activity where open and honest communication is absolutely vital, it's D/S sex play.