i wonder how many women reading the book would slap your face off for suggesting that you give some of the things in the book a try for real?
'i wanna tie you up and.....' SLAP!
from the sounds of this book it reminds me a lot of the movie Secretary-
'Lee Holloway is a smart, quirky woman in her twenties who returns to her hometown in Florida after a brief stay in a mental hospital. In search of relief from herself and her oppressive childhood environment, she starts to date a nerdy friend from high school and takes a job as a secretary in a local law firm, soon developing an obsessive crush on her older boss, Mr. Grey. Through their increasingly bizarre relationship, Lee follows her deepest longings to the heights of masochism and finally to a place of self-affirmation.'
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0274812/
(its actually a pretty sexy movie lol. its kind of a dark comedy)