Trust me, there is tame BDSM. There are some folks who think using a blindfold is kinky BDSM and others who think that some type of wussy restraint is BDSM. The stuff I like to read goes well beyond that.
Then there is bondage just for sex, which is boring, and BDSM that involves little bondage but is based more on psychological factors, which is really interesting. I actually read and entire erotica novel where the vast majority of sex was based on psychological factors and it was not until the end that any type of bondage was involved. The book could have safely made it without that last chapter or two but I rather liked them...
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