Writing is an art. Many people, especially teenagers, don't know this fact. This is why a large percentage of teenagers write as they have seen in SMS messages and tweeter posts, or how they see it being done by pop stars.
Unfortunately, writing in this way will never give the desired satisfaction to your reader. Little wonder that, according to research carried out on teenagers, at least 70% of them have never understood messages during chat sessions. That tells us that obscure monologues leaving the other side of the communication to wonder what you are writing about is cruel.
The writing secret that has been hidden for so long is that writing is an art. It is not rocket science. For you and your partner to enjoy the pleasure of written communication, you have to learn the art. And it is a step by step procedure.
Writing should not be rushed. If you do, all you get from your reader is hatred towards reading and to you in the long run. You need to take the process from the top to the bottom.
Sorry, couldn't resist