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Old 09-15-2011, 07:37 PM   #316
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Originally Posted by phenomshel View Post
There are definitely times that we want to please others. I just don't think it should always be one party trying to please, which I think is what Betty was getting at.
I didn't get that idea at all. I even specifically said 'please each other' not "please your man." There is no question that it should be a two way street. Specifically, I said "Can't one please both themselves and their significant others? No one said it had to be the women pleasing the men.


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For some reason, in lots of cultures, it always seems to be the woman's job to please the man. Of course, then there's the point that men just look stupid in lingerie....
Not just stupid! Look at the choices men are given! Even the Chippendale dancers seem limited to 'cowboy,' 'construction worker,' and 'secret agent!'

There are is a great variety in men's underwear but it's mostly in colors, with only 4 shapes offered, two of them being really uncomfortable.

So with this thread being mostly female ideas, what do YOU think is sexy attire for men? Calvin Klein wants us to believe it's 20 year old guys with no hair on their bodies. (Until recently 'stylish' Japanese men would use hair remover...) What intimate clothing style is sexy for a guy?

(And I realize that many agree that clean and fresh is important... to some, while 'straight from two days hard work, unshaved' is important to others. I'm talking 'clothing,' not hygiene. )

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