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Originally Posted by Iridal
I completely agree with you Betty. I wouldn't buy anything that doesn't make me feel comfortable and pretty.
But I totally agree with you (stitchawl) too! There's nothing better than having bf tell me I look good today. So on the days I meet him, I do think about my choice of clothes more thoroughly, and ask myself whether he would like my outfit too  |
I don't think we were saying things that were 'opposite.' I see them as 'compliments,' things that work together. No fighting.
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Originally Posted by aceflor
Interesting subject, not the lingerie in itself, but pleasing someone else.
I will always try to please him wearing something that he likes, but not to the point of feeling ridiculous and very bad in it myself. Catwoman yes  , Busty Nurse : no. After all, I am a superhero ! |
Being 'sexy' is inside, not outside a person. One doesn't need to look like a beauty contest winner or a Chippendale dance to be incredibly sexy. It's how you see yourself that counts. One of the sexiest woman I ever knew had a body like a fireplug!
And it's really hard to see oneself as sexy if you are feeling ridiculous, man or woman. And it's not just clothing. It's a symbiosis of the 'right' clothing
AND right mindset. For some, an old flannel shirt can be every bit as sexy as $1,000 designer nightgown. Of course on others, it just looks like an old flannel shirt... The trick is to know what we can use to our best advantage.
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Mind you, he likes lingerie, but when I wear the only sexy lingerie I like, which are silk short gowns in either cream, beige or black, he keeps wanting to take them off me. What's the point ? 
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That's the point!
I guess they work for you!
Stitchawl