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Originally Posted by Stitchawl
Wow! Do I ever disagree! I've fallen head over heels in love with four women in my life, and married three of them. None of the marriage dissolved because of lack of love. We simply grew in different directions, and remain good friends to this day.
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Is it a good thing?
My numbers are more or less in the same ball park than yours. Except the last one, there is no friendship, nada. Maybe I should start all over again ...
BTW. I agree with you in disagreeing. It is not that I stopped loving the first one because I felt in love with the second one. I felt in love with the second one after I stopped loving the first one. And why did I stop loving the first one? Eh ... If I knew that I would patent it. With the nth of the sequence (great cook, fantastic nest decorator, sweet and pretty as they come, intelligent also, sense of humor, pure joy) we thought we had it well under control. Yeah. Where is she now? Who knows.
I think that one can be in love (i mean like you say, head over heels) with only one. At the time. For as long as possible, for as long as it lasts.