unfortunately loss is part of life and we always need to try to celebrate the time we have had rather than the loss. I recently reconnected with an old Army buddy who went through a rather nasty divorce. his adult (adult but only 19) daughter is kind of acting out and he is very frustrated with her. she has asked to stay with him for 3 weeks, he only has a 1 bedroom apartment, but has a sleeper sofa in the living room. he had worked himself into a frenzy over not being able to cope with her for 3 weeks, and I finally told him that this is the only time that we have, and what we turn away from we regret forever as we cannot get it back
chardonnay and iced green tea... 2 cups, not together ;o)
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