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Originally Posted by orlok
Poor advice, IMO. Honesty is always the best course. I know from bitter experience.
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Yes orlok. No doubt about it. Truth wins, without truth we are nothing. I am convinced of it. But there is an other factor, that is essential and dominates in personal relations, and that is timing. My advice was and is, wait. Let the feelings get clearer, and if not clearer, stronger. Then one can think of commitment. Only then, truth becomes essential. I would not commit myself to a relation that is mostly *cough* physical.
So, Iridal, keep your cards covered, for the time being, and do follow your desires. From what you said, it looks like you are a very nice and smart person. Which I knew all along anyway. Just enjoy yourself as much as you can.