Thread: What is in your cup?
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Old 08-15-2011, 07:29 PM   #14282
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Originally Posted by beppe View Post
Iridal. Wait before straightening out with gent1. Wait until you know a little more about your feelings. Do not let them know about each other. Now you are full of enthusiasm and you are experiencing the enormous strength of a new romantic attraction, actually two. But listen, anything that you say now, will be accepted in that magic mood, but it will stay in their mind for ever, and poison their thoughts. Therefore, keep it to yourself. Deal with each one separately. Keep your privacy. In any case, whatever you are, they see you with their own eyes, and have of you an idea that is only partially you, but mostly is how they imagine you, or what they dream and desire, and expect. The curse of expectations. It takes ages to know each other. And when one arrives there ... It is time for someone else. Nah, it is not true, really. But ...
Poor advice, IMO. Honesty is always the best course. I know from bitter experience.
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