Thanks guys, for all the advice. I was really really really struggling with it, but I decided to have dinner with 'gent2' (as he has been dubbed here) because I wanted to go so badly and tell him first thing that I am seeing someone right now. But there's definitely something there. We just talked for 5 hours straight. About anything and everything. Without akward pauses. That's something I can't do with 'gent1', that relationship is more *cough* physical. Now I think I need to be honest to gent1 too ... I think I'm going to spend a sleepless night.
In my cup: Rooibos chocolate mint.
Just to be clear: I would never allow something to happen with gent2 while I'm still in a relationship with gent1. That happened to me once and it totally and completely sucks, so I would never do to that to someone else.
Last edited by Iridal; 08-15-2011 at 04:50 PM.
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