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Originally Posted by VydorScope
I have been happily married 15 years now, and my advice is opposite of most in this thread so far. Pick one relationship and work it, and do not branch out. Branching out only dilutes all of the relationships. I would also say go slow with whomever you pick. Build foundations so that if you go ahead and get really serious about it you have something to work with.
Oh yea... Green Mountain Dark Magic (getting it now)
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Originally Posted by maianhvk
In my mug: home made corn milk, by sister. Living near is wonderful, she brings many fancy foods and drinks over everyday
@ Iri: Multi-function won't work. You should deal with this BF issue one by one. Then again, I'm inexperienced. That's just what I think.
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Originally Posted by ProfCrash
Reporting in from vacation. We were able to successfully surprise my Mother. She is never going to believe me when I say I am flying home for a business meeting again but her birthday party was a great success.
Lots of beer, wine, and tea consumed so far. More to drink over the next few days.
Iridal: Since you are calling gent number 1 your boyfriend you should be honest with gent number 2 and tell him you are dating someone. Dinner as friends is fine but that is all that it should be. If you are so tempted by gent number 2 then it is time to think about gent number 1 and how you feel about him. I know this advice does not make your life simpler.
Put yourself in your boyfriends shoes. How would you feel if you found out he had started potentailly seeing another woman? If the answer to that is "Like crap" or "betrayed" than you should have the answer to your question.
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You are all very right. But ...
If *our* Iridal is curious, that means a few things that are quite evident. Plus one little corollary. Regret is one of the worst and bitter feeling. Both ways. Like sometime I see one of those nice couples that have been married for a life long. And I regret having divorced from my first, she was my high school sweetheart. She is still a very attractive woman. But then I remember tossing in that desolate bed and asking myself what I was doing there ...
It all depends if she wants to take this guy and teach him everything, like that one likes to spend a Saturday reading, instead of going around. That it is better to wait for one to come forward on her own rather than assuming. And few things like that.
Of course if Iri and Bf have promised each other to be faithful, that makes a huge difference. But already Iri has broken it as she is thinking about going out with gent2. It is all in the head. The facts, in these matters, are relevant only if they are known. I remain with my idea. Iridal, if you feel fine with it, just go ahead and drink all of your cup. Which is what the prof is saying, her being a she and me a he.