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Originally Posted by Iridal
Oh boy ... The world must be a pretty screwed up place, because last night (after BF went home and I was having another drink with a girlfriend) I ran into someone I've known through my brother for a while (and who I hadn't seen in a couple of years) and we ended up talking for a couple of hours. And now he wants to have dinner tonight, which I would really like too. There's just a connection there ... But I have a boyfriend!  What to do, what to do ... This is no fun way to spend the weekend  I think I need someone with lots of relationship and dating experience.
That being said: hot cocoa in my cup, maybe the chocolate will make me feel better.
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Now, more seriously. The things you do, how you do them, have the greater impact on your self, mostly. If you are at ease with being promiscuous, then the problems are just logistic ones. I was promiscuous at your age, and then I found out that being so did not let me appreciate a relation at it's full potential, therefore since countless years, few marriages and few affairs, I love them one at the time, it has become a strict rule, and I am very happy with it. I also learned that mixing what is finishing with what is starting is pure poison.
You are obviously transmitting. That tells a lot to a guy with good sensors.
That said, follow your impulse, and please, do it for me, go always all the way.