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this gives a bit more info on what you're trying to do.
Firstly, do you really want to burden down your ToC with all those entries? Cover, title, copyright and dedication are pages that the reader will pass through as they open the book and page to the text. Entries for those just get in the way of the entries that serve the reader's purpose. Furthermore, since they're clustered at the start of the book they're easy to find is a reader should want to look at the dedication again.
I see you include an entry for 'Contents'. Do you plan to include an xhtml page laying out the contents as well? Remember that ePub does not require this. A contents page is largely irrelevant for ePubs unless you lay it out well, adding some stylistic flourish or extra information to complement the chapter headings. A simple list of chapters is wasted space.
InDesign is still a bit poor as an ePub generator for many reasons, even in CS5.5 (I used to be a fan, but then became thoroughly disillusioned). You can, at least, now force page-breaks on an arbitrary paragraph style, but you can only chose one. It's possible to hack this by defining a style that will only be used to signal page-breaks, then insert an empty paragraph with this style just before your Section and Chapter headings. I've attached some files that show this in practice.
This produces what you want, but frankly I do NOT regard it as good practice - you're having to insert empty paragraphs which serve no purpose other than to get around the restrictions of InDesign. But right now this is the only way to achieve what you want without post-processing the epub file.
If you really want the best results, there's still no alternative to learning xhtml and css (which is incredibly easy and you can do in a day), then modifying the exported ePub in Sigil. This would also allow you to fix some other undesirable aspects, such as the way InDesign specifies paragraph margins and text indents in pixels.