Quote:
Originally Posted by Stitchawl
I doubt anyone really knows a comfortable way to deal with these things. My Mom just passed way a few months ago, and I'm still not sure I'm dealing with it... Know that we are all pulling for you.
Stitchawl
|
My Dad died recently (and he lived on a different continent, which complicates things). The demon I now wrestle with is that I never told him what a b*stard he was, and sometimes regret that. On the other hand, would that be a fair thing to do to someone in failing health and increasingly feeble mind (though he was working almost up to the day he died at 82).
All in all, I think it was best to let sleeping dogs lie in this instance, though sometimes I wish I had "shared".