You don't wait for it to happen. You don't go looking for it. You don't let it go looking for you. It just happens. There isn't any other way it can happen. You don't plan for it. You don't expect it. You just go with it. And it happens when it happens.
When I first told my wife that I loved her on IRC, I just kind of blurted it out in PM. It was not something I was planning on doing. It just happened.
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