Yes, „nomally“ we have it all at hand – the appearance, the smell, the gestures, the posture, the hands, the look in one’s eyes – and at least in the beginning this is (very) important.
What if this all comes last? When you fall in love without having seen the other one? Which part does the “optic” play then?
Astra – or anyone else with this experience – how did it feel to see and smell and touch your wife for the first time after falling in love platonically, with only an image in the head?
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