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Originally Posted by lene1949
Exer... I'm so sorry to hear that your soul mate passed away...
Obviously her family hasn't come to terms with their loss, and are trying to blame someone, and the closest one to her was you... It is their way of coping... Their behaviour is normal, even though it's hurting you.
Stand strong, and eventually you might be able to grieve together.
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I agree with Lene -- it has been such a short time, and sometimes people who are grieving feel compelled to find somebody to blame. I think it is just a coping mechanism, and I seriously doubt they are even taking into account that it hurts you. I am glad that your grief is taking a more productive path -- remembering your good times together and thinking about what she would have wanted. Give them all some space without burning any bridges. Hopefully in time you will all remember the good times together.