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I did not realize that you had gone through such a loss, I am so sorry for you!!!
you need to cherish the memories of your lady, celebrate her life. you do not need whatever negativity her family is bringing into their contact with you. over time that will cheapen your experiences together. anytime we are in a toxic relationship it affects us negatively. back away from them for now and let them continue their grieving process in their own. for whatever reason they have decided to take it out on you. that is not fair to you, or to the memory of the one you hold so dear. hopefully with time they will figure out how destructive they have been. do not drop to their level and lash back. also do not shut them out completely, just effectively enough for everyone to begin the healing process
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