Sudden unexpected death, and the ensuing grief, can bring out the best, and unfortunately, the worst in families. Sometimes giving each other some distance during the grieving & healing process is needed. It's not turning your back on her, or losing your connection to her. You need the time & peace to come to terms yourself with your loss, before you can deal or withstand her family's attitude towards her.
It's not quite the same, I know, but there is always someone online here you can talk with - helps with the feeling of isolation.
Hang tough Exer! You've got a lot of support here.
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