Exer, I'm sorry to read about all the problems you have with the family of your lady. Unfortunately from personal experience, I know that it's always very very hard to break with family members but that would be the advice I would dare to give you.
At least temporarily, you don't have to break up for good. Tell them once in a very polite manner how important they are for you as the family of your lady, how much you would like to have good relations with them (if you feel this honestly), but only when they are able to treat you as respectfully and politely as you treat them. Until then it's better to go different paths. Seek the company of those that will really help you overcoming your loss.
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Originally Posted by Exer
Its just making me hopeless and sick. ... It just gets worse and worse.
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Please, don't let it get thus far! You have a big enough problem yourself, don't let others impose their problems on you! I wish you all the best.