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Originally Posted by beppe
Brava, I am sure that you do it seldom (almost never) but well, that is better than a tiny bit all the time.
that is half of the fun. It cannot be only sugar, and honey and syrup.
BTW, your story and that of your Parents, that is very nice.
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Thanks. Most of the time I annoy him it is not intentional and vice versa. Although there are those times when I get really annoyed that the man cannot figure out how to put a plate in the dishwasher.....
I agree with most of what has been said here. My hubby and I are very much alike, we are competitive, we are analytical (although in different ways he is an Engineer and I am a Political Scientist), we love sports, we get very absorbed in our hobbies, ect... But we are also very different. I am more out going, gabby, and adventurous. He is more responsible is the wrong word in some ways but right in others. Maybe, he is more pragmatic, less impulsive, and more private. We tend to balance each other out. I push him to travel more and get out and do things. He helps me take a step back and think through things.
Finding that balance between important similarities and important differences is essential. I would not want to marry me, that would be boring. I needed someone who challenged me and helped me develop into a better person. I think that that is the true calling of a life long lover. To challenge you and help you grow and vice versa.