Thread: What is in your cup?
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Old 03-03-2011, 12:26 PM   #8834
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Originally Posted by maianhvk View Post
And this idea about 'the other half'. Suppose I would love him so much that I would want to marry him, I'm still troubled. Based on many unhappy endings that I know, people love, get married, the so-called love ends. How can I know that I can love that other half despite all the obstacles, that our love stays trong for years and I'm not tired of looking at the same face for such a long time? I don't want to play 'try and fail', I don't want to get divorced. And many of you said 'it would come' - yeah, suppose it would, but how can I know it is the genuine one, not 'made in China'? What if I fall for Mr. Wrong and marry him before Mr. Right appears?
There isn't one "other half" out there for you. There are many potential ones.



1:58 to 2:20 is particular relevant I think. (& it's all funny!)

As for judging when any particular man is Mr Right, you can only do your best. I'd suggest that you consider his general behaviour, not just his behaviour towards you while you're dating.

Oh - and my cup is empty at the moment. Hopefully orange juice soon.
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