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Originally Posted by Stitchawl
Unfortunately, I'm inclined to agree with you. All the pretty women seem to flock around the gay men. There must be a good reason for it.
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There is indeed a good reason for it. Two good reasons, in fact. (1) The perks of having a male escort/companion without the complications of sex, so there is usually a relaxed, easy-going, comfortable relationship - not common with straight men. Not impossible, either, but hard to find. (2) The pleasure of a friendship with a male who has feminine sensibilities, also usually lacking in straight men, or perhaps more accurately, suppressed.
A great mistake I made in early life was to let go of a gay man I was closer to and loved more deeply than anyone since, because I was brain-washed by social conventions to think my lifetime companion had to be a straight man. By the time I realized I should have spent my life with this man, he was already dead. I still grieve for him.