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Originally Posted by SameOldStory
I too was born in the south. But then again, that was a long time ago.
We were taught to open doors for everyone, and were brought up short if we didn't. We were also taken out of a restaurant’s dinning room if we were crying or making a fuss. It was a long time before I felt comfortable not saying "Yes Sir", or "No Ma'am". People learned politeness as they grew up.
What the F--- you 'spect.
It's a different world now. I won’t miss it when I go.
Back to the point.
"I answer, womens lib happened."
I remember girls on dates, or even just unknown women, telling me I don't have to open doors for them, they can do it themselves. A few even took the door from me and held it 'till I went thru.
I never tried to explain that I held it open for men as well. I try real hard not to argue with stupidity. I'm afraid that I fail all too often. The older I get the less I'm willing to put up with it.
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I'm about as independent and liberated as they come, and I still appreciate and thank someone that opens doors for me. I also appreciate going out with a man who holds a chair for me. he is honoring ME!