I apologize, Beppe.
Back to business.
Tho my advice is not asked for, I will give it anyway.
Stay away from forming personal relationships online.
As much fun as they may be, they aren't 'real'.
You posted in another thread, your wifes reluctance to leave the kids with a sitter and play tennis with you, and your displeasure with that.
Heres the thing. In your lifetime, there is time to have fun, and time to be a parent and family. Its a stressful, daily grind, and not always fun.
More divorces are caused by people getting tired of the 'same ole same ole' routing, and not realizing that their chief responsibility at the moment lies at home, raising kids with stable home lives, decent moral values, able to go into the world with half a chance to do the same.
Soon enough, the kids will be grown, and parents will become 'couples' again.
Then the fun can really begin.......If you can survive that long.
Many times, its just a question of whats more important......instant gratification now, or putting it off a little.
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