I cook something special and elaborate, that requires fancy ingredients, and a few passages. like stuffed zucchini flowers,
or a rich flavorful gateau di patate.
than i put in the fridge a couple of bottles of a sexy rosè and invite to dinner the prettiest woman I know that is ready to accept the invitation on such a short notice. I explain to her the situation and that I need her to give me back some mental sanity, and sense of proportions. In other words I guarantee a pleasant evening, which is what it turns out most of the times.
Whatever happens stress control is guarantee, even if I am stuck with only myself as company.
For what concerns the poll I voted the hobby.