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Originally Posted by desertgrandma
@Marc..
Okay......I didn't realize what lie behind the "star chamber" and of course my asking why I wasn't invited was 'tongue in cheek'. Consider the request 'rescinded'
As for the other, I found many of recluses comments directed to me inappropriate....but tried to ignore most of them. Public messages on my visitors list, however, which he has since erased, were another matter, and
I called him on it. Everyone has their 'line in the sand', and he crossed mine.
If he chooses to leave on that account, so be it. If not, so be it. |
That's okay. I abhor any kind of conflict, and tend to interject peace-love-and-mungbean diplomacy into things that are really none of my business. It is done completely absent of any judgement...only hope. "So be it" is certainly a respectable and wise philosophy to follow at times, and I do try to follow it myself (until I stick my big nose into things where it's not wanted
).
What am I doing right now? I just had my first pool swim of the season. The water was only 20C, and it was a spontaneous drop-your-pants-and-jump-in moment, but it was cool-and-pleasant, and allowed me to direct our bottom-feeder pool-cleaner, Zoidberg, to all the dirt and palms seeds and leaf-litter that washed in when I turned the fountain/waterfall/stream on. I feel cleansed (in body, if not mind).
Cheers,
Marc