@Marc..
Okay......I didn't realize what lie behind the "star chamber" and of course my asking why I wasn't invited was 'tongue in cheek'. Consider the request 'rescinded'
As for the other, I found many of recluses comments directed to me inappropriate....but tried to ignore most of them. Public messages on my visitors list, however, which he has since erased, were another matter, and
I called him on it. Everyone has their 'line in the sand', and he crossed mine.
If he chooses to leave on that account, so be it. If not, so be it.