1) Have you tried sorting on the ondevice column?
Yes still empty (s/b 1100 tick marks)
2) If you check the book known to be the same as the book 'in library', does it have nothing on it?
Browsing SDCard library in Calibre, selecting a title, and View shows book in Calibre's reader
3) Try doing a bulk metadata edit, change nothing, and hit OK. Do the books get marked? No change
4) Is automatic management turned on? If not, try turning it on (unless you have a reason not to).
Was OFF, Turned to Automatic (Isn't this a Sony only setting?) No change when connecting.
NOTE: rebooted PC (because I was having trouble getting to MR only)
It now works as expected. Something is odd