When I used to go out (for the evening) I was told by several people I looked un-approachable, Like I was in a 'glass cage', someone said.. lolol... I had no idea. I went out to meet people! That was 20 years ago.
The 'glass cage' still stands... I'm never approached by anyone in public, and I like it that way... These days I don't need to meet people, I have my work and my animals.
If I were in a hotel, there's no way, I'd be reading in the lounge/restaurant/whatever... I'd be going to the room I'd booked...
My daughter says I'm a HERMIT..