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Originally Posted by Juliette
Rant:
the ex, despite the fact that he made a horrible, rather shocking break-up with me ("dumped me out of the blue" is a fair description) just too recently not to want to skin him and sell the flesh as whale meat, wants to be friends. I don't. So pardon me if I'm terribly cold in answering to texts and block him from FB updates (mind yer own business) and simply ignore him despite prodding.
"It's not you, it's just that relationships are too stressfull for me." Okay, next time I have to confront him I could just tell him that keeping around a fecking liar with far too many problems a 40 yo should cope on his own with (delusions of grandeur, persecution complexes, and generally being less bright than a eight year old) is too stressful for me. Tell me, am I too cruel?
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There's a little lesson in saying to yourself 'SUAS' which means 'Shut up and Smile' - it confuses the heck out of them.
In your mind's eye you can rip off their left arm, hit them about the head with the sloppy end, and then get really violent. By the time they have finished their little dirge, you just walk away or put down the 'phone. They have no idea what you are thinking, all it's all such a let-down for them.
What you are doing is perfectly normal.
A pox on him!
Cheers
