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Originally Posted by kindlekitten
thanks ;o)
My Grandmother actively stated that she was ready to go. that hurt losing her but knowing it really was her decision to will herself to death made it fairly easy to handle. my Uncle went SO quickly, and my cousins and aunt included me in not only in the grieving but the planning of his celebration, it helped. I really couldn't help but feel my mother and sister were telling me to not let the screen door hit me in the ass on the way out
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And that's been the pattern in the past, the pattern for the future...people fall back on what they know, what they've done, particularly in the face of difficulty. That relationship may change or more likely it may not, you can only be responsible for you and your side of it. You did well, you did right. Now the future beckons. Settle into it, move forward put one foot in front of the other like a wild horse....