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Originally Posted by beppe
For you girls it might be the only way out. They have a tendency to consider daughters as minions at their service. Expendable. And to be shaped and dressed like them. Cssss! .
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I don't risk it much- basically, I've seen my mother phoning
her mother every day of her life (until my surprisingly brilliant but bossy gran was taken by a TIA, ironically during one of these calls, and couldn't speak properly for the rest of her days). Puts one off doing that!
Plus my mother is scary in a lot of other unfunny (euphemism) ways. (I aim to make it
her problems, though, because I've already done more than a daughter is supposed to do, or any other person including a therapist should- quoting the Beatles, with a little help from my friend, but
little help means that the most of one's problem is, sadly, one's). So, uhm, I hope not!
On the other hand, I can see the point
with all the great hugging families we got here, mother-dependance is often an obligated reality. EW. (and I've learned to keep away from mommy's boys too
)