Distilled down to its essence, not everything is going to work well for everyone. Sometimes, banging your head against the keyboard and hoping that material other than mush comes out does little good, so simply trying over and over might not work. It can even compound the feelings of stress and frustration, making the situation even more difficult.
It's like an insomniac. They can't fall asleep, so they grow more apprehensive about not getting enough sleep, which of course prevents them from sleeping.
In any case, the best way to learn how to overcome it is to try different things and find out what works. Obviously what you have going, with your stressful balance of work, bills, and trouble writing, isn't quite working. Maybe every ten minutes worked without success earns a bite of ice cream. Or something completely different.
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