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Originally Posted by DJHARKAVY
You don't have to ask anyone about anything. But when your lives are tied together, your plans might affect her plans and vice versa. It is courteous, and advantageous for long term success in a relationship to ask your partner before spending large amounts of money, or taking a night for yourself. It is equally courteous and advantageous for your partner to agree to such requests, unless they cause problems with other plans.
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It might be right to ask if the request decreases the financial assets of the partner (buying a house, car, ... on credit) but despite these exceptions I see no reason to ask if you buy a tiny hardware device like an iPad (with your own money).