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Originally Posted by Maggie Leung
Depends on the relationship. My husband and I treat it as our money, and we think very similarly about how to spend or not. I don't care if he buys a new computer or such without telling me, and vice versa. Neither of us would show up with a new car unannounced. We've moved cross-country over the years, and my husband has trusted me to buy new homes unseen by him.
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Great relationship.
Codependent relationships are the ones you have to stop immediately. Interdependence is the key to a good relationship.