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Originally Posted by ardeegee
1.) I actually did apologize to him for sounding rude (but I believe I sounded rude again before saying we were best off to drop the PMing) but I did not and absolutely will not ever apologize for the link itself.
2.) happy_terd is NOT right-- happy_terd says that only because we loathe each other. Why would someone be offended just by the fact that someone sent a PM to them-- a PM with only one purpose-- to attempt to help that person with a problem that they had brought up in the forum? (He asked for ways to help learn Japanese-- I sent a link to ways that could help in learning.) If someone doesn't want PMs at all, then I would assume that they would have PMs disabled altogether.
3.) I have no intention of getting into exact specifics of the PM contents, but I did stop after around 3 posts. There was no "repeatedly"-- that's an invention of happy_terd's assumptions.
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1 - Points for an apology.
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Originally Posted by happy_terd
I would actually be more offended by the fact that you PMd me than I would be by the contents of the PM.
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"happy_terd is NOT right-- happy_terd says that only because we loathe each other."
2 - Perhaps, then, happy just means that he would be P---- if
YOU PMed him.
2a & 3 - happy IS correct in that
" but I did stop after around 3 posts." is a few too many if they objected to the first or second PM.
It's like telling a bad joke. Once you realize that you've put your foot in Sh--, stop. Don't try to explain why the joke isn't
really offensive to the person you're talking to.