御手上げ
おてあげ
all over
given in
given up hope
bring to knees
御手付き
おてつき
touching a wrong card
making a mistress of a servant
御手伝い
おてつだい
maid
help
御手洗
みたらし
font of purifying water placed at the entrance of a shrine
御手洗い
おてあらい
toilet
restroom
lavatory
bathroom (US)
御手盛り
おてもり
making arbitrary decisions which benefit oneself