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View Poll Results: Do you like kids (under 5 years old)? | |||
I love 'em | 38 | 35.85% | |
They ok | 33 | 31.13% | |
I love them most when they're sleeping | 18 | 16.98% | |
They're too noisy, demanding and/or self-centered | 36 | 33.96% | |
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06-19-2009, 09:34 PM | #46 | |
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06-19-2009, 11:23 PM | #49 |
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You know, when my middle brother and his wife had their first daughter, he used to put her up on his shoulders. She'd grab tight to a hank of hair...and drool all over his head.
When I pointed it out to him, he'd just say: "She's a baby, that's what they do." I came to develop a strong respect for my (volatile-as-a-teenager) brother as I watched his patience with his girls. For me, though? The closest thing I've come to wishing I had kids since I was an adult was in a dream I had about 10 years ago. In my dream, a woman with a cherubic baby in a stroller walked passed me on the street and I thought to myself: "Almost makes me wish I wanted one of those!" (Note the almost!) |
06-20-2009, 03:16 AM | #50 |
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Interesting, reading this thread. when I was young, I had to shoulder a lot more burden than a child should as well as some of you. I was *never* going to get married (root of all evil) and certainly never going to have kids. I loved kids (actually, think I loved them more then than I do now ); I was very nurturing, protective, wanted to give kids the best in life-- things I didn't get. But I just didn't want any kids of my own. I knew I'd be a terrible mom.
Fast forward not as many years as you'd think.... no one was more surprised than me to see me get married (elope) at 23, and have my first kid at 28. Up until I was 27, I was still swearing never never never for the kids. I think, now, I don't want to surround myself with kids quite as much as I used to-- I crave my time away from kids. seeing as I work all day with kids, and have my own three that I am constantly with (and a husband who works long hours, so it's usually just me, and no family/babysitters etc). It gets to be too much for me. Having no time away from kids doesn't allow me to be the kind of mom I'd like to be (one with a little more patience). But I wouldn't change having my kids. It is a huge, life-changing decision, and sometimes I wonder if it's all worth it, but I wouldn't change it. It has been a cycle of growing though, and I had a really hard time with having my identity changed to "mom." I have been working hard these past few years to get some of my own identity back. "Mom" is definitely a big part of my identity, but it is not all that I am, nor all I aspire to be. |
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Her schedule: get up at 7:00, bring the kid to the creche at 8:00, pick up the kid at the babysitter at 20:00 (as the creche is only during working hours) and put the kid to bed. (don't remember the exact schedule, but this is the short of it...) Why have kids if you don't want to make the time for them? My brother was a salesperson, who often went to the clients, all over the country. This meant he was often home very late. As soon as his first son was born, he changed his function so he could do normal office hours. That way he could eat with his son, play with his son and put him to bed. |
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A child is the promise that time makes to a man,
the guarantee every father receives that whatever he holds dear will someday be considered foolish, and that the person he loves best in the world will misunderstand him. It has taken my son almost 35 years to reverse this. But thank God it's actually happening. Stitchawl |
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Scene: supermarket, mother with child in shoppingcart. Child puts some chips in the cart, mother sees it and puts it back Child starts crying as if he's being killed Mother drops on the floor and starts having a tantrum. Child stops. Mother stands up, as if it's normal what she's done and continues shopping with a very quiet child Awesome commercial... Wish I could find it somewhere... My wish is my command, different search string found me this: Last edited by Sweetpea; 06-20-2009 at 11:39 AM. |
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06-20-2009, 05:21 PM | #56 |
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I love kids, they are delicious when served with a mustard based dipping sauce. Some of the older ones do get a bit stringy and tough. Jonathan Swift did a great cookbook about kids a few years back in England.
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06-20-2009, 05:57 PM | #57 |
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I never "liked" kids. They annoyed me when I was in a restaurant, or when they were running around on the sidewalk, getting their diaper changed when I'm in the park etc.
But I knew I wanted to have kids, sometime, because I knew that I would feel my life had been a waste if I didn't. Now I am a proud father of a 9-month old, and learning the ropes. Being the stay-at-home part of the parenting team really helps, too. So now I appreciate other kids more, usually in the sub-5 age area. Somehow they all smell weird and act weird and annoy me still once they reach 8 or nine. Yesterday a group of 10-year-olds were passing me on the sidewalk, me pushing the carriage and carrying 3 shopping bags in my left hand, and the one closest to me just barely made room for the stroller, but made a point of whacking my bag-carrying arm and show off to his friends how cool he was. Maybe it's a good thing I usually find the right replies/reactions about an hour after the occurrence, otherwise I might have an angry parent standing on my doorstep, or worse, the cops. |
06-20-2009, 06:23 PM | #58 |
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I am the proud father of two boys (6 and 12 years old), What annoys me more than anything is those people who complain about kids and yet put themselves in positions where they are almost sure to come across them.
Example; we took the boys to a family themed restaurant at 6 in the evening last weekend. In that restaurant, at the next table, were a couple (no children) who were clearly displeased at our children talking (not shouting or being naughty, just talking). Well. I'm sorry, but if you get annoyed by kids, do not go to a family restaurant in the early evening - go out after 9, or go to an adults only restaurant - jeez! |
06-20-2009, 08:24 PM | #59 |
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McDonalds does NOT make its money from selling food. It makes it as a safe haven for young mothers who need a place to take their kids where the kids can run amok, running around the tables, have screaming contests, throw food at each other, etc., etc., while the mothers completely ignore all this behavior and chat merrily among themselves, totally oblivious to all the chaos. A drug-free tranquilizer for Moms! If they aren't going to teach their children manners, at least they are kind enough to group them all together to disturb the least number of other people.
I applaud McDonalds for this clever approach to marketing. Fortunately most other patrons of this fast-food chain know this to be true and if they wish to avoid it, only enter the premise after little ankle biter's bed time! It re-affirms for me why in Nature so many animals eat their young... Stitchawl |
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