08-04-2013, 08:51 AM | #16 |
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I know that people love attributing things to "addictive personalities" and "electronic devices", but the reality is that there have always been people like this. Some people dig deeply into books (print or electronics), some into sports (spectators or athletes), plus the many other facets of life.
While this woman's experiences would be considered excessive by most people and for obsessions, if it was even slightly time consuming less it could be looked at differently. If it was print books she would have been called a bookwork, with all of it's good and bad connotations. If she was an athlete or an entrepreneur, she would have been called driven and praised heavily (especially at her age). If it was video games it would be an addict. Funny how our notion of addiction is based upon perceived value, ain't it? |
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I'm afraid I must disagree. An enjoyment becomes an addiction when it's taken to extremes - no matter what that activity might be. Reading, playing video games, watching TV - all are harmless in moderation. They become problematic when engaged in at times that the person should be doing other things, whether it be school, work, looking after the children, or whatever. A person whose life is out of control in that way probably does need help.
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08-04-2013, 09:35 AM | #18 |
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The word addiction is applied to all sorts of conditions and compulsive behaviors where the clinical definition of addiction doesn't apply. No change to chemical receptors in the brain cells, no physical symptons of withdrawal.
This doesn't mean that the compulsive don't need help, but I think it does a disservice both to the truly addicted and those who are emotionally compelled to a behavior. It gets a little too easy for the latter case to claim they can't help it because it's an addiction, ie, a problem with a physcial component. |
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08-05-2013, 07:17 AM | #20 | |
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Or take a look at work-lives. Some people let work take over their lives, even when there is no financial need to do so. If they are single and without children, it is virtually never discussed as an addiction even if it is having a negative impact upon their life (e.g. socialization). It is only discussed as an addiction when it interferes with their family. There is always a value judgement when we are talking about addictions. |
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Time spent in a certain way is not IMO a valid measure of addiction. It is, as you said, the interference with other of life's aspects and the degree of discomfort, if any, that occurs when the addictive behavior is interrupted or prevented. Helen |
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"Addiction" has a very specific definition, and applying to behavioural compulsions in the first place (as noted above) is very very dodgy. Trying to then go a large stretch further and apply to it normal levels of activity that plenty of people engage in without any sense of compulsion or anxiety on withdrawal is just incorrect. |
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My mother in law was a compulsive cleaner. She wanted to clean. She could stop cleaning, but it made her uncomfortable stopping for long periods of time. She didn't hate dirt, she welcomed it. In the context of the article she was perhaps an addict as it did affect her relations with others. My sister in law took it personally and would not let her visit or see her grandchildren often. Me I thought it was fine if she wanted to clean and bought her presents Maybe it is in the eye of the beholders. My point though was if you chose to watch TV or play video games for long periods it is not necessarily an addiction or a compulsion. It could be an option you have chosen. Like skydiving or rock climbing or drinking beer. Some people can stop when something different and interesting comes along and often do, and some people can't. Helen |
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I understand that visitors to Stephen Hawking's family home when he was a kid could expect people to be reading at the dinner table. Presumably they had a book in one hand and their fork in the other.
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That is the obvious way to do and I do it all the time but with the phone in one hand and the fork in the other hand.
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08-05-2013, 01:36 PM | #28 |
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People can be just as 'addicted' to reading paper books as they can with e-books. If someone spends all their time reading paper books, it's not considered a big things, but when it's e-books, then somehow it is something awful.
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The nice thing about the ereader is that you can just place it on the table and just use one finger now and then to turn the pages. You can do that and eat with a knife and fork!
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08-05-2013, 08:42 PM | #30 |
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There is a character, in one of my favorite books of all time, who has such a problem with excessive reading of paper books.
The novel is the 1951 Pulitzer Prize winner for fiction, The Town. No eBook is available, illustrating the thesis of the How Copyright Made Mid-Century Books Vanish thread. |
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