i hope you find your book slite, it is really frustrating to forget the title of a book you want to find... i had a thread searching for a forgotten book as well (a long time ago), i did not find the book i was looking for however it did become a very interesting discussion and many other good books were recommended, so it was not in vain.
sorry, i can't help you with the book you describe.
(note to self : do try to remember to refresh the page before posting, if the tab has been open for some time already...
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