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Originally Posted by foghat
How are you defining 'no relationship plans'?
If you are talking about potentially hanging out with someone for a few weeks and just see where the wind blows, I get it. Sort of.
If you are talking about a one night stand, you have just blown me away with your (I extrapolate) 'boring sex not worth the risk' comment.
All and all, not sure if serious.
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Any more serious (more than sex) longterm relationship with a non-reader (if that's what you mean by 'hanging out together just to see how far it goes') would be so far out off my radar that I wouldn't even bother to think about it.
If I happen to spend free time with non readers
(what rarely occurs; somehow the things I like to do mostly attract people who like to read too) I limit the contact to said occasions.
I made the experience that I and non-readers just don't grok each other.
The way I understood the 1st post was that only a one-night (optional becoming friends with benefits was not discussed) was planned.
So yes what I said about not being completely out of question but probably too boring to waste ones time on, was about sex-only short- or longterm pairings. After all I could read a good book instead.
Note that it's all about probabilities. I admit that the meeting and contact might have shown hints it would be worth giving a try, but I think it's unlikely.
If that blows you away; well different thinking patterns. OTOH you might wonder how little importance the physical appearance has in my judgement. Even if it's just about having sex together.