PM received and Kindle is de-registered fully charged and ready to ship just waiting for paypal
I left all the free games found at the freebies and deals subforum here at mobileread
I see I should have found:
http://ppcalc.com/ pay pal calculator that lets you put in what you want and they show the fee that paypal deducts from what is sent to you so to receive $325 I needed to have asked for $335.02 .. but you live ... you learn